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Dad Shares Powerful Wisdom In Texts To Daughter After Breakup, “So Be The Bull”

A two-photo collage. The first shows Fallon and dad Scott smiling for a selfie outside. The second image shows part of a text from Scott to Fallon: Hey baby girl... here is some perspective from your old man... I have had lots of relationships... from one-night stands, to flings, to friends w/ benefits, to girlfriends, to live-in girlfriends, and then I met your Mom.

Breakups suck. This is a fact that most of us can agree on. It’s certainly one that’s all-too-familiar for Fallon Thompson at the moment. Not long ago, her boyfriend unexpectedly broke up with her. He officially ended things while they were in the driveway of her home. In turn, the young woman’s dad, Scott, saw the whole thing happen. He was heartbroken over how devastated his daughter was about the relationship ending.

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Luckily, as someone who has experienced his own fair share of heartbreak over the years, he had some wisdom to share. In a few lengthy texts to Fallon, this thoughtful dad gives some of the best most comforting advice. Now, it’s viral on social media!

Text from dad named Scott:

Hey baby girl... here is some perspective from your old man... I have had lots of relationships... from one-night stands, to flings, to friends w/ benefits, to girlfriends, to live-in girlfriends, and then I met your Mom.

I can say with certainty that when I met her, it was instantly different. I can also say that I knew it was different because I went through those other experiences

So what you are dealing with today is necessary in order for you to one day be able to discern when a person is really right for you

I can also say that even though I was broken up with, and in one instance I was cheated on, it was worth it, to get to where I am now
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The first part of his message, as seen in the image above, Scott gives an overview of his own relationship history. By being open with Fallon, she’s able to understand just how much he can relate to how she’s feeling. Then, in his next set of messages, he shares why there is reason to be grateful for what happened.

Dad Sends Thoughtful Texts of Wisdom to His Daughter Post-Breakup

“Some of the best advice I will ever give you is this,” Scott starts, “When someone lets you know that you are not for them, deal with the pain and hurt with the knowledge that this person just gave you back the most valuable thing in the world — your time.”

Continuation of a text from dad named Scott:

Looking back, I do not for one second ever wish I could still be with any of those other ladies. Even though at the time I was heartbroken, and it felt like I would never recover, and I was destined to be alone

I promise you, that is not your future

 Some of the best advice I will ever give you is this. When someone let's you know that you are not for them, deal with the pain and hurt with the knowledge that this person just gave you back the most valuable thing in the world — your time.

Be grateful for the experience you had with this persona and the good times you got to have; and then rejoice in the knowledge that your life is still completely yours and you have not wasted it shackled to someone that did not completely want you
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“It was just one of those texts that’s so sweet you just sort of want to cry,” Fallon shares. “So I sort of teared up a little bit and I was like, ‘Wow, like, regardless of where my relationships may lead me in life, I know I’m always gonna have my dad and my family. That’s the most important thing to me.”

As if those kind words weren’t enough, Scott goes on to use a powerful metaphor to help his daughter view her pain in a better light.

Continuation of a text from dad named Scott:

There are cows and bulls in this life. When a cow sees a storm, they run away from it. What ends up happening is they end up being tortured by the storm longer as they are actually keeping themselves in the storm longer.

However when a bull sees a storm, they run toward it, facing the onslaught head on. Initially, it's terrible but they are strong, and they can weather the storm, and because they ran toward it and they were able to endure it, the storm passes them quickly, and they are soon in a peaceful place

So be the bull, and lean into your storm, embrace the suck, and let it fill you up. You are strong enough to endure, and very soon you will be at peace. Still on your path, achieving your goals, and with all of your time still in surplus

Love Dad
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Although folks from all over are loving everything Scott said, they’re especially loving the metaphor about cows and bulls. Fittingly, Fallon herself already has a bull skull tattoo — how cool is that?

Dad’s Wise Texts Help Strangers on Social Media

Fallon and dad Scott smile for a selfie outside.
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In addition to helping his daughter feel better, Scott has also helped strangers from all around the world. Although this wasn’t his intention, of course, he couldn’t be happier to hear that his wisdom is helping so many people.

“I was just trying to, you know, pour a little bit of wisdom into my daughter and give her some perspective,” Scott says. “It’s really cool that this helped out some other people and to me, that’s the best part about it.”

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