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“July 25th, 2020 I Attempted Leaving This World, Losing Both My Legs In Result.”

Romy smiles softly from her wheelchair. She is posing for a photo outside with three family members who are smiling. Text on the image reads: "My family thought this was the end stage of my life. They thought I wouldn't be able to live without my legs."

On July 25, 2020, a young woman named Romy attempted to take her own life. Now, she’s sharing her recovery journey with the hope that others will reach out when they, too, are in need of help. On TikTok, Romy shares that in her suicide attempt, she lost both of her legs. Recovery in the hospital would take months and was full of difficult conversations and times of denial.

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But Romy carried on. Family, friends, and loved ones reached out to support through flowers and visits —even her Nan, who had dementia and lived in England, took the time to visit her in Switzerland. Over time, acts of kindness like these helped give Romy the push she needed to keep going.

Romy smiles softy from a hospital bed as she takes a selfie with someone wearing a face mask. This person also has a tag on their shirt with their photo, indicating it may be a medical professional. Text on the image reads: "One of the people that I actually let see my pain. She was my sunshine."
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Still, recovery hasn’t been easy. One source of joy, however, was in the beautiful sunsets Romy had the chance to witness from the rooftop of her rehabilitation clinic, a place she resided for six months.

“These sunsets were one of the only things that gave me peace, even if it was just for a few minutes,” Romy shared. “They were, and are still, the most beautiful sunsets I had ever seen.”

A beautiful sunset taken by Romy. The sky at the top of the photo is a grey/blue color with thin clouds. The sky at the bottom half of the photo is a deep, rich orange/red with more clouds.
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During that time, she hoped to one day use prosthetics, only to learn it wouldn’t be possible. But with the help of her loved ones, including her beloved cat, Coco, she is able to take life one day at a time. Her brothers and cousins have even raised awareness for mental illness by running a marathon to raise money for an organization called ReThink Mental Illness.

Romy smiles softly from her wheelchair. She is posing for a photo outside with three family members who are smiling. Text on the image reads: "My family thought this was the end stage of my life. They thought I wouldn't be able to live without my legs."
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“Life will never be the same again and there will always be regret, I think,” Romy wrote. “But step by step (no pun intended), I’m learning to deal with my loss. Talk about your feelings. To anyone. Don’t lie to yourself. It might save your life.”

Healing isn’t linear, and there are folks who care. Don’t hesitate to reach out to a loved one or call 988 (if in the United States) if you need help.

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